Brian Stanley

Penquis Valley High School- Milo, Maine

University of Maine - Orono, Attended 1989 - 1993, Bachelor's Degree

social worker/ case mananger/ advocate

Democratic Party, Stonewall Democrats, Human Rights Campaign, Amnesty International, American Association on Mental Retardation, The Sierra Club, The Mayflower Society, Portland Musuem of Art, The Stanley Musuem, OutRight, Wilde-Stein (Alumni), and The Homo Club (Membership Commitee)

Art, Music, Theatre, Biking, Hanging out with Friends, Shopping, Volunteering, Traveling, Opera, Books (reading and collecting)

Density of Souls and The Snow Garden by Christopher Rice, Where the Boys Are and The Men From the Boys and All American Boy by William J Mann, Vanity Fair by William Makepeace Thackeray, In His Own Words by Nelson Mandela, The Shining Firestarter and Misery by Stephen King, The Beginning of Calamities by Thomas House, The Inferno by Dante Alighieri, The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald, Cry To Heaven by Anne Rice, The Oldest Gay Couple in America by Gean Harwood, The Godfather by Mario Puzo, The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger, Different People by Orland Outland, Beloved by Toni Morrison, Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil by John Berendt, Less Than Zero by Bret Easton Ellis, Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin, The Color Purple by Alice Walker, To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee, Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak, And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein

American Beauty, Brokeback Mountain, The Godfather Saga, Love Actually, The Notebook, Crash, Elizabethtown, Finding Neverland, The Lost Boys, Angels in America, Latter Days, The Broken Hearts Club, Annie Hall, The World According to Garp, Rosemary's Baby, Poltergeist, Doctor Zhivago, Breakfast at Tiffany's, St Elmo's Fire, The Breakfast Club, Sixteen Candles, Clueless, Goodfellas, Europa Europa, Blue Velvet, Eraserhead, Fanny and Alexander, The Motorcycle Diaries, Life is Beautiful, Lady and the Tramp, Heathers, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, Attack of the Killer Condoms, Duck Soup, Taxi Driver, The Ice Storm, Citizen Kane, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Psycho, Witches of Eastwick, Rebel Without a Cause, Splendor in the Grass, In Cold Blood, To Kill A Mockingbird, Endless Love, Roman Holiday, A Place in the Sun, Sophie's Choice, The Stepford Wives, Mommie Dearest, Zombies (Because I'm in it)

Dance music, Opera, Classical, Rap, Hip-Hop, Top 40, Pop, will to listen to anything, except Polka

Absolutely Fabulous, West Wing, Twin Peaks, Desperate Housewives, Will and Grace, Crumbs, Footballers' Wives, Six Feet Under, Queer as Folk, Project Runway, Oz, The Sopranos, Sex and the City, The Osbournes, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, South Park, Drawn Together, Family Guy, Ambush Makeover, Dynasty, Old Disney Cartoons

Gemini

Hmm, let's see. My name is Brian and I live in Portland, Maine, but spend alot of time in Ogunquit and Boston. I'm 34yo, 5'6" tall, 133lbs, dark blond hair, blue eyes with a slender build. I'm a social worker/case manager/advocate for the developmentally disabled. I think my interests are covered above. I'm also open to trying new things. My vices/likes include, but are not limited to: M&Ms, Jelly Belly's, Grey Goose Vodka, Raspberry Peach Champagne Jam from Stonewall Kitchen, Smiling Hill Farms chocolate milk, Double Stuff Oreos, Krispy Kremes, Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey Ice Cream, cannoli, pumpkin chocolate chip cookies, baby carrots, ranch dressing, alfalfa sprouts, Root Candles, sweaters, flannel sheets, warm towels, haircuts at Salon Paragon (Shawn, you rock!), Q-Tips, Pleasures for Men cologne, My white terry bathrobe, my flip-flops, the Bethesda fountain in Central Park, Section G on Ogunquit Beach, shopping at Banana Republic, GAP, H&M, and JCrew, and irritating the Moral Majority. My dislikes include but are not limited to: anyone that takes themselves too seriously, anyone who says one thing and does another, people that go McDonald's and order a Diet Coke with their meal, the majority of Republicans, people who dismiss or judge things without trying it first or learning more about it, people who think hygeine is just a theory, hyper children on airplanes, clingy fag hags who cock block and the fags that allow them to do so, people with no sense of humor, pea soup, whipped cream on jello shots, warm vodka, brussel sprouts, beer, seafood, flat Pepsi, bad porn, clowns, mimes, and poodles. I tend to be a bit of a shy person upon meeting new people, until I get to know you. Anything else you want to know please feel free to ask, I may not tell you, but you can ask. :-) I'm always up for chatting and meeting new people. My aol/aim screen name is Justice671, and my yahoo screen name is justice61971. My email is bri61971@hotmail.com

Ideally I would like to meet a guy that is funny, sweet, kind, caring, loving, educated, tall, athletic build and has a great smile. He has to be able to make me smile. He has to be someone that makes me catch my breath when I see him and someone that I want to share my life, and grow old with. He also has to feel the same way about me. He has to like my friends as well, or at least be able to tolerate them. He has to like spending warm summer afternoons on the beach (Ogunquit Beach or Herring Cove). When he says he will do something he keeps his word and does not pussy out. He doesn't play games and won't tolerate anyone who does. I'm not looking for too much am I? Yeah, I know I am. I am also looking to expand my circle of friends and for chat buddies. To add me - bri61971@hotmail.com