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""The Buddhists said life is a fucking hassle, but they didn't say it so elequently."
--Albert Ellis, psychologist
"The..."
More about Kai
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Schools:
Kamehameha Schools Kapalama Ca, Attended 1991 - 1997, Class of 1997
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Schools (Other):
Kamehameha Schools, SLC in Paris, Paris IV--Sorbonne
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College/University:
Sarah Lawrence College, Attended 1997 - 2002, Class of 2002, Bachelor's Degree, Dance and French Literature
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Occupation:
Marketing/Public Relations/Tea Buyer
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Hobbies and Interests:
incense, fragrance, wine, fine tea, dance, meditation, scarves, Comme des Garcons, islands, sexuality, beauty, food, religion, Buddhism, France, restaurants
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Favorite Books:
The Lover, Practicalities, & The North China Lover (Duras), Rashomon (Akutagawa), The Izumi Shikibu Diary, Delta of Venus (Nin), The Pillow Book of Sei Shonagon, Tropismes (Sarraute), Confessions of an Amorous Man, The Botany of Desire
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Favorite Movies:
2046, Devdas, In the Mood for Love, Hero, I Am Curious, A Heart in Winter, Monsoon Wedding, Color Blossoms, Peony Pavillion, Flowers of Shanghai, Millenium Mambo
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Favorite Music:
electronica, deep house, trip-hop, Brazilian Music, French Pop, Cibelle, Benjamin Biolay, Faye Wong, Etienne Daho, Monday Michiru, Vanessa Daou, PJ Harvey, Utada Hikaru, Talvin Singh, Gustavo Cerati, Madredeus, Daniela Mercury, Erykah Badu, Rachid Taha, Marisa Monte, Kekuhi Kanahele
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Favorite TV Shows:
Never home to watch it anymore.
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About Me:
"The Buddhists said life is a fucking hassle, but they didn't say it so elequently."
--Albert Ellis, psychologist
"The two of us
We became friends at the first meeting...
Three words, two phrases
A thousand changes, ten thousand guises
Seven emotions, six desires
A lifetime of perfection"
--Faye Wong, "Liang ge ren sheng jing"
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Who I Want to Meet:
Lovers of tea and fragrance.
Men who like to burn incense late at night.
Any fan of Faye Wong is a friend of mine--within good reason, of course.
Na kanaka maoli ma ka 'aina 'e (That's island speak for Hawaiians in the states.)
Hapa folk.
Gong Li, Maggie Cheung, and Carl Ng.
Harold and Kumar
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all at the same time (while smoking a
hookah and drinking 10 different kinds
of tea and liquor). An absolutely
amazing and beautiful man. He's the
older Hawaiian brother I was meant to
have.
intellectual, and a casual dancer who
makes statements in all he does. Kai
and I went to highschool together, but
never really hung out. However, he is
the one who led me to Sarah Lawrence
and I am grateful to him for being
there for me. Although I haven't
heard from him, in what seems like
ages, I still have aloha for him. He
is like a mystery, sometimes
unsolvable, however, when it comes
down to it he is very down to earth,
reliable, friendly, warm hearted, a
hard worker, and a discreet party
person who packs a punch. Anyways,
Kai call, write, or email me....
year? I know I took our child and
haven't even demanded child support
(though the checks can be sent to Sarah
Lawrence Admission). I was recently
thinking about the first time we met. I
was writing my semester journal for
film history at 4am. And yes it was
love at first sight. I have met many
men since then, and i have yet to have
a child with any of them (through
immaculate conception of otherwise)
Though it has been difficult to
maintain out relationship, i relaly do
believe we are ment for one another.
Mochababy and I miss you terribly.
There are so many glasses of white wine
we need to drink together. Friendster
reunited us, let the alcohol keep us
together. baci
day night. He invited me a tea, and I
felt comfortable, at home, talking with
a fine, enigmatically interesting,
handsome and kind young man. Almost a
year later, I've gotten to know Kai
quite well: we've been roomies since
then. We've shared a lot more than the
rent, we've become good friends. My
first impression wasn't wrong, just
limited. Now I know that he is also
sincerely good, humane, impressively
mature, fun, sweet, and more handsome.
He knows about good things --Buddhism,
wine, music, parties, people, goodness,
forgiveness etc.-- and he's generous
sharing them. He has become a fun,
interesting, beloved brother.