Tom Coleman

Sleeping.

Male, 36, In a Relationship
Interested In: Dating Men, Friends, Activity Partners
Member Since: Feb 2003
Location: Oakland, CA
Hometown: Cranford, NJ
Company: IFA, various temp agencies, Johnson & Johnson, LifeScan, Genentech
Tom's URL:
http://profiles.friendster.com/19821

"Okay, most gay guys are stereotyped as being great dressers, emotionally sensative, spend countless hours in the gym toning..."

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Schools (Other):
Cranford High, Stevens Institute of Technology, Almeda University
Occupation:
Corporate Slave (Contract Analyst)
Affiliations:
ACBL
Hobbies and Interests:
anime, Asian Zodiac, bridge, cards, cooking, Cranford, dating, GC, games, Harry Potter, horoscopes, karioke, gay, men, movies, networking, PlayStation, San Francisco, SFGMC, singing, space, video games, Western Zodiac, et al.
Favorite Books:
Harry Potter, Horror, Non-Fiction, lately it's been magazines.
Favorite Movies:
The Shawshank Redemption. Okay, okay, and Camp, Connie & Carla. I'd rather laugh than cry. Heathers, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Mean Girls... they can be dark too.
Favorite Music:
I'll listen to anything and everything. Mostly stuff you can sing or dance to. Karaoke research.
Favorite TV Shows:
Avatar the last Airbender, Heroes, Newsradio, Project Runway
Zodiac Sign:
Aries
About Me:
Okay, most gay guys are stereotyped as being great dressers, emotionally sensative, spend countless hours in the gym toning their bodies out of self-hatred or to be good enough to find a boyfriend, and only feel fulfilled when they're in a relationship with another man.

I can tell you, that I am as far from that stereotype as possible.

I don't know much about clothes, but my hair looks fierce!

You'd have more luck slapping me with a wet fish than getting soppy emotional responses. I can be romantic, but it takes years to make me sentimental.

I don't spend any time at the gym. Lucky for me, genetics is on my side. For all those who care: 6'0", 155lbs, brown hair/eyes. I have some tummy fat and I'm not that muscular. Oh well.

And I've been just as happy single as in a relationship. I'm currently in an open relationship, which is very much like being single. Only better, as I do have a romantic connection with someone. I'm actually allowed to have it with others as well.

I'm loud, I can be rude, insensitive, and callous. But I'm a loyal, caring, and fun friend to have around. It's the East Coast in me. I'm used to fighting for things, spending too much time in crowds and loud areas, being talked over, at, and argued with. It's just who I am.

And I never make apologies for that.
Who I Want to Meet:
People in da hood! Friends for partying, dancing, laughing, hanging out are most welcome.

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Nate
Posted
Tom is a crazy, geeky, game playing, gay extrovert just like me! No wonder we're friends! And we both like margaritas! Thanks for everything Tom you've really come through for me in big ways the last few months and I'll always appreciate it!

Rebecca
Posted
Tom is a wonderful friend, conscious optimist, and is just plain good at this whole business of being human. Plus, he is ridiculously cute. About TIME he got a boyfriend. I was starting to doubt the perceptiveness of the entire gay male population of California.

Lilibeth
Posted
Everyone also says how wonderful Tom is,
but really, I've found his
weakness...the sight of a vagina will
stop him dead in his tracks. So there,
now we all know his secret.

Rebecca
Posted
Tom, to me, epitomises the concept of
optimism as a revolutionary force. The
world would be improved quite a bit by
more people like him. He's a wonderful
friend and human being -- I have no
higher praise.

Sean
Posted
Tom is a great guy, though he has a bit
of an evil streak. One of these days
I'll actually manage to torment him
with musicals like I keep promising to
do but we'd actually have to stop
talking to do so. ;-)

Nathan
Posted
Tom is a consummate host and will give
you the shirt off his back to make you
more comfortable. He's warm, funny,
mature, in love, and full of intriguing
geeky interests.. what more do you need?

Ethan
Posted
Tom's been a great friend to find! We've
played board games, bridge, been in a
LARP, watched movies, and more
importantly, we've talked. He's been a
great person to kvetch about my life with!

Michael
Posted
I was pretty drunk the first time I
really talked to Tom...I think that's
why we clicked so well! I hate that he
can't hang out after rehearsals
anymore...that's when I'd get all the
gossip! I adore my Hedda!

Sylvia
Posted
Ah, Tom. Who has been a friend of mine
since he was shorter than me (which,
admittedly, was not for long).
Sadly, he is so far away in California.

Warren
Posted
Tom is a great guy! Caring to a fault,
always has great advice, tells you
things straight, and has a sympathetic
ear. And did I mention that the man
can cook like an Iron Chef?!?! That's
my roommate for ya!!

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