i am single and
i have no girlfriend
i am just a simple person
who seeks for true and
unconditional love
i fall to a person
who is simple and
has a beautiful heart
i want to meet a person
who will accept me as who i am and what i am right now.
I want to meet a person:
-who understands..
-who gives time and attention
-who cares
-who trusts
-who have an positive outlook
-who has sense of humor
-who is smart
-who is decent
-who is fun to be with
-who is responsible
-who have a good spirit
-who have good manners
-who is flexible
-who is helpful and generous
-who shows respect
-who has control and discipline
-who has a high self esteem
-who is neat and properly dressed
-who is true and original
-who is friendly and open
-who is educated
-who is just,fair and equitable
-who is competitive
-who is strong and courageous
-who is faces problem
-who have talents and skills
-who shows best in all times
-who will love me fully
Quotations to Remember
By :Pjhay Lacebal
1. An able man shows his spirit by gentle words and resolute actions. He is neither hot nor timid.
2. Let no presume to give advice to others that has not first given good counsel to himself.
3. Ambition is a lust that’s never quenched. It goes more inflamed and madder by enjoyment.
4. Before you can do something, you’ve got to be something.
5. The important thing in life is to have a great aim and to posses aptitude and perseverance to attain it.
6. Beauty without virtue is like a flower without perfume.
7. A man’s own character shapes his fortune.
8. He who wishes to secure the good of others has already secured his own.
9. To be content with what we posses is the greatest and most secure of riches.
10. If we cannot get what we like, let us just like what we can get.
11. True courage and courtesy goes hand in hand. The bravest man is the most forgiving and the most anxious to avoid quarrels.
12. A man of courage is also full of faith.
13. A criticism is something one can avoid by saying nothing, doing nothing and being nothing.
14. If you had a good conscience, death would hold no great fears for you.
15. Life is not certain that you shall win, but make it certain that you shall try.
16. The world always stands aside for the determined man. Will makes a way, even through seeming impossibilities.
17. Nothing can stop a determined person with the right attitude from pursuing his goal.
18. Difficulty that wrestles with us strengthens our nerves and sharpens our skill.
19. The essence of education lies in drawing out the very best that is in you.
20. When you have faith, you can’t have fear. Faith is opposite of fear.
21. Works without faith is like a fish without water; it lacks the element it should live in.
22. Do not rely on your present good fortune. Prepare for the year when it may leave you.
23. People cannot be free unless they are willing to sacrifice some of their interests to guarantee the freedom of others.
24. If you like accepting something, start giving something.
25. It’s hard to spend your time digging up dirt about others without getting dirty yourself.
26. Happiness depends on what you can give, not on what you can get.
27. There is no happiness without a clear conscience.
28. Happiness is an inside job. The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.
29. The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.
30. A man without knowledge is like a house without a foundation.
31. Man is measured by his deeds not by his words.
32. Faith dares everything and love bears everything.
33. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.
34. Prayer is an effective tool in facing life’s challenges.
35. Smile is something like a light in the window that tells people that you are in.
36. Success in life is a process of selection and elimination; a choosing between the worthwhile and the worthless.
37. The road to success is not doing the one thing 100 percent better, but doing 100 things one percent better.
38. Success can be achieved through hard work, patience and determination.
39. Having a part of something is better than having nothing.
40. A small mistake may be as harmful as big one.
41. Ability can take you to the top but it takes character to keep you there.
42. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
43. There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do.
44. Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and angels know of us.
45. A man of character finds a special attractiveness in difficulty, since it is only by coming to grips with difficulties that he can realize his potentials.
46. A compliment is a gift not to be thrown away carelessly unless you want to hurt the giver.
47. A smile is the perfection of laughter.
48. It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
49. Only those who have the patience to do simple things perfectly can ever acquire the skill to do difficult things easily.
50. To find life reasonably satisfying you must have a self image that you can live with. You must find yourself acceptable to you. You must have a self that you like and the one that you can trust and believe in. when this self-image is one you can be proud of, you feel self confident.
January 18, 2007.Wild Confessions with Martin Del Rosario:
What’s your name again? I am Jessica Rodriguez, 22 from Dasmarinas Makati.
How did you meet Pjhay? It’s October 2007, at the Decades in Timog, He was alone then, I’m with my friends, I got curious when I first saw him, he looks very familiar to me but I can’t remember him anyway, so I approach him and he asked me for a sit, he was smiling but as I look into his eyes, there something unusual, he seems to be sad inside, feels like he is broken.
So you made the first move to get in touch with him? Yeah right! No regrets at all, I don’t care if what other people thinks of me but it was a nice experience knowing him.
What are the things you have talked about? I asked him if he had a girlfriend, he just smile at me and offer me a drink, He is a man of character, very decent, gentleman, down to earth, sincere when talking and very friendly. He always makes segway on jokes and makes funny faces.
So he didn’t answer your question? Absolutely. No. Even until now, I have no idea if he had a girlfriend, he is a man of few words and I’m not the type of person who keeps on asking something personal, It needs a very long time to know him better.
What’s your first impression to him? Did he ask you anything? He is a good boy next door type of person. His eyes is very honest and his lips is very promising. “Kinilig nga ako nung kiniss niya yung hands ko”. Honestly speaking he is my type but I guess he don’t like me.
Why do you said that so? Did he tell you personally that you like him or did he tell you or made actions that he don’t like you? Every time I made actions like seducing him, she keeps on telling “Galit Jesus”. I think he is a one woman man, I never thought he that he will just ignore my beauty. Sabi pa nga nia, were friends and were happy, I’m not yet ready.
So what happen Next between you and him? Well, I never surrender, but I’ll be patient waiting for the right time, One thing I had learned from him is when he said that “Kaylangan ko muna makaipon ng limang milyon para makapag asawa, 500 thousand for the wedding, 2 million for the house , 1.5 million for the car and the rest is for savings, I don’t want my family to suffer from hunger, I want to treat my girl as a queen and my children as the prince that will inherit all my wisdom. I was very inspired of what he had said thinking and hoping that I was that girl he is dreaming of.
Is there still a chance between you and him? I think there is no more hope, I have my own boyfriend right now and he has his own life now, we don’t have something in common, worse was we don’t have a connection nor chemistry, girls will be easy to fall in love to him because this guy is a boyfriend material, I assure you that complete satisfaction will inculcate when you’re with him. He is one of the best persons I’ve ever met. Grabeh.
January 19, 2007: Wild Confessions with Martin Del Rosario:
You’re the bestfriend of Pjhay right? Yep, sa kalokohan at sa tawanan, sa gimik at sa pang chichiks.
So Maramirami ka narin alam tungkol kay Pjhong? Oo naman, Yan ang hari ng kalandian.
O, bakit mo naman nasabi yan? Grabe tol, kung maligo yan mahina na ang isang oras at kung mag ayos sa salamin, halos pumasok na ang mukha niyan sa loob ng salamin, Super Vain nga tawag ko jan kasi nga kagalit daw niya ang mga germs. Ayaw nian sa mababaho porket super bango, mi ultimo yung brief nian may perfume, mula ulo hanggang paa ang bango bango. Grabe. Sarap sapakin.
Kwento ka naman pag gumigimik kayo, anu-ano madalas niyong ginagawa? Ah yan, kaladkaring bata yan, walang keme, kahit saan pwede, isang tawag mo lang anjan kaagad. Ok nga tong taong to eh, sarap kasama, daming alam hindi lang halata sa pagmumuka. Makapal mukha nian eh. Madalas naming puntahan ang mga hindi pa namin napupuntahan at madalas kami gumawa ng trip na katawatawa, madalas kami mag imbento ng mga halo halong pagkain at inumin.
Sa mga bar, anu madalas niyong ginagawa? Pag mga disco bar, ayan, sayaw lang ng sayaw yan, magaling nga kase talaga sumayaw yan lalo na sa pag kanta, ok na ok tong videoke king. Pag inuman nga lang, yan ang weakness niya, isang glass ng wine, nangangamatis na, as in pulang pula at namamantal siya. Allergic siya dun for sure.
Naninigarilyo ba siya? Hindi siguro, di ko pa naman nakita eh at di pa naman niya ako inaalok.
Nagkagirlfriend nab a siya? May nakwento siya sa akin dati, nung highschool daw siya, may nameet siyang girl na girlfriend ng katropa niya, kamukang kamuka daw yun ni Anne Curtis, nung nagkalabuan daw yung mag jowa bigla daw siya sumulpot sa eksena at nagging sila daw nung bebot. Hindi ko alam buong storya pero alam kong mahal na mahal talaga niya yung girl pero away ng parents niya dun sa girl, hiniwalayan din daw niya dahil ayaw naman niya masira ang pagkakaibigan nila ng tropa niya. Ang ending, pare-pareho lang silang broken hearted. Sinakripisyo niya ang pagmamahal niya para sa kaibigan niya, sabi niya sa akin, mahirap mawalan ng totoong kaibigan kesa sa girlfriend. Sa mga lumipas dawn a taon, sa babaeng yun parin ang isip niya, hanggang sa maka-move on nalamang siya. Takot na siya magmahal at masaktan dahil ang sakit sakit daw talaga lalo na pag binigay mo ang lahat. Yan beprend ko nay an talaga, the best na kaibigan, di niya ipagpapalit ang tropa kahit kanino paman, wala kasi yang kapatid kaya lahat ng tropa niya tintrato niya as kapatid niya.
Ah ganun, may mga instances ba sa buhay mo na nagaway kayo? Meron, pero hindi ko rin yan matiis eh, ako din naman may kasalanan, basta amin nalang yun. Basta yan si jay, ayaw talaga ng away, kahit ako pa may kasalanan, siya pa gagawa ng paraan para maayos at siya pa ang magsosori.
Nasabi mo kanina na mahilig yan mag videoke? Anu madala niya kinakanta sa videoke? Hay naku, pre. Ang corny, Closer you and I tsaka Wherever you will go. Walang sawa nga yan lagi, minsan nga nung nasa mall kame, grabeh, kala mo nagcoconcert, dinumog ba naman ng tao nung kumanta yan ng My Sacrifice ng the creed. Mahilig yan sa Alternative Rock, Yellowcard, Dashboard Confessional, The Used, Panic at the dico, Fall out boy at My Chemical Romance, Pati Chicosci, Typecast at Spongecola. As far as I know nagging vocalist yan eh, di ko lang alam yung details kung kaylan at saan, di ko pa natatanung.
May iba ka pa bang ibubulgar tungkol kay pjhong? Yan? Ayaw may katabi pagmatutulog, wala kase=ing damit lagi. Di yan kumakain ng isda at gulay, allergic daw siya. Mahilig yan manuod ng sine mag isa. Isa palang nagging gf niya, torpe kase, kahit siya na nililigawan, ayaw pa. masiadong choosy, kaya nga chou xie tawag ko din jan eh. Mayroon xiang walong friendster account nung 2007, nagyon nireduce na niya sa apat, baka nga daw next month isa nalang or wala na. Rich kid yang unggoy nay an. Ganda ng kwarto, daming alalay, laki ng haus,. Masion. Yung dad niya bigtime na abogado at mom nia ay military dati na business woman na ngayon. Wala na akong masasabi pa. sobrang humble kase, kahit sabihan ng cute, pogi, mabait… ngingiti lang at idideny pa. as a whole, he is a gift from up above na di dapat pakawalan.
Pjhay’s Lovely Day:
Thank God for an another wonderful morning given to us..
Do a light exercise that will make you sweat..
An hour of shower while singing to add eitement and fun..
Have your make-over and be presentable..
Eat your heavy breakfast and take your vitamins..
Give a smile to those people you will meet..
Be Positive all day and Reject Negative Instincts..
Show your best shot in everything you will do as if it would be the last..
Chin up and be proud while walking, Develop your self-esteem and
Show the world the attitude of a Super Model wannabe!!
Never be insecure to the looks of other people,
You dont need to be handsome to have an X-factor, Star quality and Sex Appeal!!
Its the attitude that speaks to the wholeness of yourself!!
Be Yourself not a copycat of other personality!!
Eat your lunch properly but have balance-diet, avoid softdrinks..
I prefer to eat beef and breast chicken to have a buff and muscular body..
I avoid oily foods, sweets and cold drinks..
I take a walk after I eat to burn the calories of the food I have eaten.
Learn, Discover and Think something new that you have never try.
Avoid doing Bad things if you dont like to do good things.
Be careful to your words; be sensitive enough to the feelings of other people.
Always step on the ground when receiving praises and compliments!
Be a man of Character!
Have a quality time to relax and have your leisure time to avoid stress and anxiety..
I just eat light snacks that would not make my stomach bloat!!
I always summarized all the things I did in the whole day whether if it is good or bad,
I made realizations and a deeper thinking about the certain problems I had encountered.
But I never think a problem as a big deal, I just pray to God to find solutions on how to resolve the problem that I had encountered. Never Quit, Always be a winner!!
There is no obstacle to a person who has will, determination
And belief that he will succeed!!
A pleasant day to you and welcome to my profile.
I am Pjhay Lacebal, 18 from Bacoor Cavite.
I am an only child of a lawyer and an official military woman.
A Cebuano cutie who lives for love and passion.
I know who is cute and I know whose not,
I know whose pretending and I know who is conceited.
I am driven and ambitious...I am totally self motivated to succeed...
I am actively working to achieve what I want... A competitive and positive person..
I am skillful in many areas... Can Dance, Can Sing, Can Project or even act on stage..
I am a natural predator with strong instincts...
I am a positive person who does not entertain negative way of thinking.
I am creative, energetic, and an extremely powerful force...
An outdoor type at night who likes parties, gigs, clubbing, barhopping, strolling, meeting new friends and dating with some girls, I am also an indoor type of person who like to lie in bed the whole day, who likes to eat chocolates and pizzas while surfing the net or watching DVD while listening to my ipod, I maybe weird, boring type of person, a sarcastic but not plastic, a simple man whose absurd in nonsense people, ...I like animals especially dogs and fishes and I relate to them better than people for they don’t criticize me or judge me without knowing my true colors...I tend to have an explosive personality, but also a good sense of humor when talking to senseless people...People sometimes see me as arrogant, boastful or a know it all person but I’m not...I tend to be a bit of a loner, though I hate to be alone. I can be a real intellectual powerhouse. Chances are that my mind is almost constantly engaged by one fantastic thought or another. Because I'm the kind who is highly creative, keeping up with I can be like riding an intellectual roller coaster. But my zest for life usually goes beyond your own big ideas and endeavors. I can take real pleasure in helping others to reach their dreams as well as I reach mine, I want to feel to my friends what I feel and vice versa. I can be a wonderful coach, brother and mentor to help people attain their goals in life. I seem to know how to bring out the best in people.
In relationships, my type is known for deeply valuing your commitments. Not the kind to be an open book, I'm often hesitant to share my feelings with others especially in the early stages of a relationship. I may take a long time to admit the depth of my feelings for someone. It may also take some coaxing to get me to share personal details about my life. The first thing I look upon into a girl is her character, she must be decent, smart and responsible enough to perform her responsibilities in life. My Intellectual Type is Visual Mathematician. This means I am gifted at spotting patterns both in pictures and in numbers. These talents combined with my overall high intelligence make me good at understanding the big picture, which is why people trust my instincts and turn to me for direction especially in the workplace. I'm an easygoing and open minded guy with an uninhibited sense of adventure. I believe you get back what you give out so I have nothing but respect and kudos for others when it comes to whatever differences we may have; I show fair, just and equitable treatment whether rich or poor, ugly or gorgeous, fat or sexy and intelligent or moron.. I may not agree with you but I will still respect you and I expect the same in return. I have no patience for liars, pretenders, social climbers, fakes and flakes. I am open to mostly anyone who wants to be my friend... someone funny and can carry a conversation... someone who I can share life with... you need not to pretend to be someone you aren't... just be yourself and that would be enough.. Hoping to find and be with the person that would make me utter the words "When I met you, it was like a warm breeze that suddenly came in my life... You have been the reason I survive... With you, I'll never be lost again..." Many of us spend most of our time thinking of the past, brooding on the bad experiences, dwelling on past laurels, or planning, looking forward to and worrying about the future. That was bad, I wish it didn't happen. I shouldn't have done that. That was good, wish I could have it again. Wow it was wonderful, let me live through it in my mind again and again. Something good is coming, can't wait. Once it comes, life would be better. But something bad is approaching, what should I do, how I should handle it. Things are fine now, will something go wrong soon? The list goes on. In doing all that, we are making the big mistake of losing what is the most important of them all - the present. What's past is over. We can't change it. Enjoy the sweet memories. Let the bad experiences be a valuable lesson to us. Learn from them. Plan for the future. But don't dwell too much on it. Life is unpredictable, and we have no idea what is going to happen next. When it comes, it comes - the future will take care of itself. What really matters is the present, because we are living it right now. Make the fullest use of it. As some people say, the past is history, the future is a mystery. And now? Well, it's a gift, that's why it's called the present. Live your life to the fullest man!!!! Cheers!!!! So friends.... good or bad. If you happen to meet me or met before, pls add me here in my friendster account.....stay happy aight? I'd also like to find a someone whom I can share my deepest secrets and fantasies with. How can we begin? Perhaps we may share dinner, a movie, a walk, or just a talk. Getting to know you, above all, is what makes us enjoy the future of what might yet come. I'm looking for just one. Who's up for an exciting adventure??? If you think Inside, I am truly a gentleman and a sweet person. Someone you can relax with during the daytime, I am young man who came out of the shadows with no past and an uncertain future. Remain positive with my so-called-Forrest-Gump-optimism attitude, never allowing myself to be complicated. I am passionate man who has a few words. A mushy lover, sweet, caring and a loving friend. An outspoken man who is joyful and optimistic person. Appears "problematic" in the eyes of the others, unpredictable sometimes. I am occasionally has a hard time coping with frustration and, as a result, can become depressed over trivial matters. Although I remain silent, I have strong feelings for. I am a gentle, honest person who seems to care more of the others than of myself. Looks spirited, feisty, independent and lively young man with the ability to touch people's hearts. Open and honest with my feelings, I am known to act on impulse rather than reasoning. Driven by my ambition, I can be difficult at times... Although I seem to be uncaring and frivolous at first glance, in reality I am sensitive and serious Loathes responsibility there are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Don't count the years--count the memories. I am willing to be part of your life. Hope we will be good friends and I promise that I will give my best shot to show you the real me! Thanks friend! i hope i could be part of your rocking life!
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