Jeff Chiu

Rutgers University, University of York

Human Resources guy

Creative Voices, F-Liners

hanging out with friends, singing, theater, shopping, people watching, cuddling with my cat, working out, yoga, running, softball

The Kite Runner, I Know This Much is True, Harry Potter (all 6 of them), Da Vinci Code, Deception Point, The Lost Language of the Cranes, Nickel and Dimed, Angel and Demons, The Tender Land, The Joy Luck Club, The Kitchen God's Wife, Lovely Bones

Billy Elliot, The Star Wars Triology (4, 5, 6), Bring it On, Clueless, Relax It's Just Sex, The Sound of Music, Beauty and the Beast, Longtime Companion, Four Weddings and a Funeral, Hotel Rwanda

Sex and the City, Once and Again, Queer as Folk, Party of Five, Will and Grace, Friends, sadly enough - MTV reality shows like the Inferno and the Gauntlet

Aries

I consider myself someone who is fun, deep, energetic, determined, brave, loyal, passionate, compassionate, and loving. My biggest priority in life is to make deep connections with people and to cultivate long lasting mutually rewarding relationships. I am immensely interested in learning about other's lives, passions and find it most spiritually rewarding when a sense of mutual trust allows us to share with each other our most deep and intimate selves.

On the ligher side, I tend to have tons of interests and find that there is not enough time in my life to try everything that I want to try. Right now I'm singing in an awesome choir called Creative Voices (check out our site at www.creativevoices.org), do yoga and work out regularly, and play softball with the F-Liners team. However the thing that I really want is to be cast in a stage musical (I know, how quintessential gay). If I don't get to sing and dance on stage before I die, I will not have fulfilled one of my destinies for this lifetime. So if you see open auditions for West Side Story, contact me immediately. =)

I am interested in meeting guys to date. I find a sense of humor very attractive. I like guys who are really comfortable with themselves, are self reflective and have the ability to listen as well as share about themselves. I like someone who is passionate about something and goes for it. I hope to also find someone who likes to be around people as much as I do, or at least is comfortable hanging out in groups.

The one caveat that I need to include is that listing out qualities of the "ideal" person is fine and dandy, however I have enough life experience to know that I don't know exactly what's "right" for me, since I haven't found it yet. I also cannot quantify chemistry and attraction, which can often override every characteristic that I think I want.