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Loving someone means giving him the freedom, whoever he chose to be and wherever he wants to be.
For all the heartaches and tears, for the gloomy days or fruitless years; give thanks, you know that these were the things that helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and your existence.
Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire yet tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why.
If you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
When you decide to love, be sure to give it your all..
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TO FALL IN LOVE.... To fall in love
i never thought i would
to have the privilege
i never thought i could
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To have someone as perfect as you
i never thought could be real
to have feelings so deep
i never thought i would feel
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To be loved back
i never thought would be
to love you so much
and knowing you love me
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To have one mans smile
change my entire day
to have only blue skies
and no longer let them be gray
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To spend each moment
with the girl of my dreams
i never thought it would be so surreal
its just how it seems
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To be so happy
i never thought i would see
the day i fell in love
and the day you fell in love with me
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Love, Love, LOVE...
We all know that love is this good feeling that makes one feel special and lifts you up. When you are in a healthy and loving relationship, you will have an assortment of experiences giving rise to positive emotions. They include affection, caring, concern, acceptance, joy, happiness, intimacy, trust and security.
A relationship can go awry when inbalances and misjudgements set in. For example, being emotionally involved may be mistaken as being needy. There is a difference between the both. The latter happens when one partys need for emotional involvement has gone out of balance.
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Then there are the genuine cases of people being suffocated in a relationship due to their partners obsessiveness, untamed jealously and sometimes even family violence. Looking at these sad cases, it makes one starts to wonder - is love present? If it is, where has it been hidden?
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Obvious events aside, what are the other tell-tale signs that can give us a hint or indicate that a relationship is healthy or otherwise? I have a short list here which hopefully can serve as a form of guideline.
. Signs Of A Healthy Relationship:
Trust in each other*
Encourage personal growth*
Supportive in partners dreams and passion*
Allow for individuality*
Enjoy togetherness*
No controlling of the relationship or one party by another*
True acceptance*
Takes care of each others feelings and considerations*
Lots of affection and intimacy*
Happy in giving and receiving*
Respect is ever present*
Happy to commit to each other*
Proud of who they are and who their partner is*
. Signs Of A Unhealthy Relationship:
Dominance and control*
Obsession*
Verbal or physical abuse*
No trust on one side*
Frequent fights*
Extreme fear of losing and rejection*
Constant attempts to change the other person but unwilling to change self*
Afraid of intimacy and closeness*
Giving in order to receive*
Overriding priorities*
Looking to others or partner for a sense of self-worth*
Low self-esteem*
Frequent and repeated experiences of negative feelings*
Feeling overwhelmed or suffocated in love*
Depending on others, especially partner to feel happy and secure*
Playing mind games*
Being too needy and clingy - dont allow for personal space*
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If you notice any one exhibiting such signs or been told that they are experiencing such feelings from their partners, you may like to let them know that help is actually and readily available.
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Men are social animals. As much as we need and want companionship and love, if we are trapped in a relationship that is zapping our energies out of us and making us miserable, then the best choice is to get out.
All About Love. . .
Moving ON. . .
10 THINGS you do when you are in LOVE....
1. You dress to impress. Yes, starting from your first date to the time you got together you put in lots of effort to look good in front of him/her. Oh, you will forever remember the one piece of outfit he/she likes after you got complimented for wearing it.
2. You can’t wait to show him/her off to your friends and family. Wait, is that the nth time you have mentioned your new boyfriend/girlfriend in the last 15 minutes of conversation? Hmm, looks like you can’t get him/her out of your mind.
3. You smile for no reason. Except that you are thinking of this special person, and that is enough to make you smile and feel that you must be the luckiest person on earth. When you start smiling, you can’t stop. Yes, it’s always there, we can see it pal. ;p
4. You learn to like what he/she likes. But not what you used to like. eg. you begin to pick up new cuisines which happen to be her preference, and watching soccer no longer seem so dull and waste of time after all. That’s bonding time now!
5. You remember what he/she says about you. That compliment/remark he/she made about the way you look, smell, walk or eat. Those nice words your special someone comments stay in your heart and mind for a long time to come. Maybe, forever?
6. You give him/her the last cherry on the chocolate cake! What else do I need to say about sacrificing?
7. You feel on top of the world. That unlimited source of adrenaline pumping and flowing all over your body that just became one of your primary motivating force to work towards your goals.
8. You adopt a new pronoun. And that is us and we instead of me and I.
9. You check each others schedule before making any commitments. Theres always a just-in-case he/she has something special planned for the weekend. Yes, its always good to play safe by checking first. He/She is your first priority, why else?
10. You have forgotten the need to sleep. Even when you have had only 3 hours of sleep after a long conversation with him/her on the phone or a romantic night out under the stars. You look as fresh as a morning dew. What purpose does concealer serves when you have love!
Last but not least, you know you are in love with blogging when you cannot miss a probloggers blogging project like this. Even if it means rushing a post out at the eleventh hour and eleventh minute!
P.S You know you are in love when there is always a post-script that reads like this:
P.S. I LOVE YOU
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WHEN RED TURNS BLUE....
10 SIGNS that says your relationship is OVER....
1. One party is withdrawing. You can feel it. He no longer replies your text message as fast as he used to. Missed calls arent reverted until you call him and ask, to which you get a cold reply like Oh, I didn’t notice or Oh ya, I forgot. I was in the middle of something important at that time.
His behaviour is deviating from the usual too much, and it usually is towards the negative rather than positive.
2. He wants out, yet He cant make up his mind. As a result you can’t too. Ask yourself if it is true love, will anyone subject you to such torture in having to second guess his feelings towards you? So long as he is not fully committed to you and the relationship, meaning he is constantly harboring thoughts of breaking up, then you should fulfill his wish.
Calling the shots to sever the ties is telling him that you deserve someone much better. At least someone whose heart has only place for one person. That person is you.
3. The relationship is pulling you down Whether or not you still love him, if you continue to be stuck in an unhealthy relationship, its time you do something for yourself. You may have mistaken something else for love. It could be a gross misunderstanding of what love is, or you simply lack the courage to walk out.
Remember this - if you dont love yourself, then nobody will.
4. Presence of another he/she When a third party is involved, you need to ask yourself this question Is he/she the one I want to spend the rest of my life with?
Revisit your relationship and find out the reason why the intrusion of a third party is made possible. If the flaws weren’t too big and fatal, you can consider giving it another shot through better communication and understanding. If your partner is plainly on the look out for better alternatives or like the excitement of having more choices, then you should stamp your feet down and move on.
5. When he/she stops caring He doesn’t care if you are sick. She don’t bother picking up your clothes after you. You just hope the other person will leave you alone as you are already beginning to isolate him/her from your life.
6. The future is not us Babies and a goal to climb the highest mountain in the world are mutually exclusive. They do not go hand in hand. If she is beginning to tell you about her future plans with only I I I and not we or us, take it as a strong hint that you are not in her plan. He tells you he is taking up a job offer to be seconded to Egypt for the next 5 years. Period. Then it hit you that he is not seeking your agreement or asking for your opinion. You are merely being informed.
Thats a retrenchment letter given in words baby.
7. Silence is no longer golden Conversation has gone on a permanent holiday. Besides the usual Have you taken your dinner? and Sleeping soon? there is basically nothing left to talk about. You just isn’t in a mood to chat. No day is a good day. You feel relieved when he/she says If there’s nothing else lets hang up. Good night over the phone. Finally its over. You just clocked 1 minute 1 second airtime.
Funny thing is, your conversation buckets are always full when it is not your partner at the other line. Hmm
8. You are secretly happy when his/her ex calls Where has all the jealousy gone to? The initial desire to keep him/her is no longer there. You begin to wonder why? Where did all the competition go?
9. Missing in action Your partner plays the missing game for the nth time. This time it seems so real because no matter how hard you try to hunt him/her down, he/she is too elusive to be caught in your radar.
In plain terms, you no longer are kept informed on his whereabouts. You got wind of her schedule to fly to Hong Kong over the weekend through her buddy by accident. In short, your partner has forgotten to update you on his/her itinerary. Its either he’s too busy or you’re too unimportant.
10. When he/she says Its over The verdict is out. Its over. Accept it, and move on. I know this is painful, yet this could just be the best thing you can do for yourself. Do not doubt the meaning of those words or attempt to do an autopsy. When he/she says it’s over, take it as it’s over.
It is easy to go in. It is not that easy to get out. It is even harder to let go and move on. But rather than sticking your neck in a relationship that you know deep down isnt going to turn out fruitful, why not nip it in the bud? If you don’t, then you are stopping yourself from having another chance. This could well be the spring you are looking for.
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