"Clark: We have to talk.
Lionel: Clark, you should, uh, try picking up the phone occasionally, might be quicker. Oh, but maybe not.
Clark: What do you know about Lana.
Lionel: Letting go--never been one of your strong points, was it?
Clark: Telling the truth was never one of yours"
"Loving someone means giving him the freedom what he choose to be and where he choose to be. For all the heartaches and tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that these were things which helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love. When you decide to love, give it your all"
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TO FALL IN LOVE.... To fall in love i never thought i would to have the privilege i never thought i could ~ To have someone as perfect as you i never thought could be real to have feelings so deep i never thought i would feel ~ To be loved back i never thought would be to love you so much and knowing you love me ~ To have one mans smile change my entire day to have only blue skies and no longer let them be gray ~ To spend each moment with the girl of my dreams i never thought it would be so surreal its just how it seems ~ To be so happy i never thought i would see the day i fell in love and the day you fell in love with me
MOVING ON....
NICE TO KNOW....We all know that love is this good feeling that makes one feel special and lifts you up. When you are in a healthy and loving relationship, you will have an assortment of experiences giving rise to positive emotions. They include affection, caring, concern, acceptance, joy, happiness, intimacy, trust and security. . A relationship can go awry when imbalances and misjudgments set in. For example, being emotionally involved may be mistaken as being needy. There is a difference between the both. The latter happens when one party need for emotional involvement has gone out of balance. . Then there are the genuine cases of people being suffocated in a relationship due to their partners obsessiveness, untamed jealously and sometimes even family violence. Looking at these sad cases, it makes one starts to wonder - is love present? If it is, where has it been hidden? . Obvious events aside, what are the other tell-tale signs that can give us a hint or indicate that a relationship is healthy or otherwise? I have a short list here which hopefully can serve as a form of guideline. .
Signs Of A Healthy Relationship:
Trust in each other* Encourage personal growth* Supportive in partners dreams and passion* Allow for individuality* Enjoy togetherness* No controlling of the relationship or one party by another* True acceptance* Takes care of each others feelings and considerations* Lots of affection and intimacy* Happy in giving and receiving* Respect is ever present* Happy to commit to each other* Proud of who they are and who their partner is* .
Signs Of A Unhealthy Relationship:
Dominance and control* Obsession* Verbal or physical abuse* No trust on one side* Frequent fights* Extreme fear of losing and rejection* Constant attempts to change the other person but* Unwilling to change self* Afraid of intimacy and closeness* Giving in order to receive* Overriding priorities* Looking to others or partner for a sense of self-worth* Low self-esteem* Frequent and repeated experiences of negative feelings* Feeling overwhelmed or suffocated in love* Depending on others, especially partner to feel* happy and secure* Playing mind games* Being too needy and clingy - dont allow for personal space* . If you notice any one exhibiting such signs or been told that they are experiencing such feelings from their partners, you may like to let them know that help is actually and readily available. . Men are social animals. As much as we need and want companionship and love, if we are trapped in a relationship that is zapping our energies out of us and making us miserable, then the best choice is to get out.
LOVENOTES THAT WILL MELT YOUR HEART
REMEMBER THESE...
..A time will come when my life cease but when that time comes, I asked you to remember these: bury my body but dont bury my soul..bury my eyes but dont bury my vision..bury my feet but dont bury the path of my life..bury my hands but not my deligent efforts..bury my voice but not my messages..bury my mind but not my dreams.. For all of you bury me but dont bury my life..bury my heart but not my love, If you must bury something let it be my faults and weakness..but let my life, faith and love live on you!
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